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👋🤕Bad posture? Body hurting and getting in the way of life?
🎭🎵💃 Wish you could more consistently perform at your best?
🩵💀My name’s Grae, and I help people like you with those problems.

Learn the Alexander Technique to align your mind and body for lifelong ease and unlocked performance.

You can discover how to stand, move, and perform with ease through Alexander Technique lessons, replacing unhelpful mental and physical tension with an effortless foundation of freedom and confidence that lasts a lifetime.

Lessons available in-person San Diego and Online via Zoom.

Learn more with a free discovery call to determine if this work will help you meet your goals.

(This is just a conversation to get to know each other and for you to get more information. There is no sales pitch.🩵)

How is this different from everything else you’ve tried?

Real Client Interviews

Schedule Your One-on-One

Take a Class

Sunday Alexander Technique

Coming back soon!

A weekly drop-in class for people who want to better understand how they move and use their body, and how small changes in posture, attention, and habit can make everyday life and creative work feel a little easier.

You don’t need experience, and you don’t need to know what the Alexander Technique is. What helps is a willingness to slow down and notice how you move and respond in your body, along with some openness to what might shift when you do.

Tuesday Improv Lab

7pm-9pm @ the Little Studio

An intimate drop-in space for improvisers where chill hang-out vibes meet deep improv experimentation in a safe, curated space with some great people. What started as a simple weekly drop-in class has basically turned into an improv-focused artists’ salon, and there is room for more people to join us.

If you would like to join us, please send me a direct message for the details!

If you’re curious about group coaching or inviting me in to teach a class or workshop for your ensemble, school, or organization, I’d be glad to hear from you.

What could change for you?

Relief from pain and tension.

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Imagine moving without pain and learning how to actually relax.

Together, we’ll uncover what it takes to create ease throughout your body—from head to toe—so you feel at home in your body and move through life with comfort, confidence, and freedom.

Calm, confident embodiment.

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Posture isn’t just about how you stand—it’s about how you feel.

I’ll help you cultivate truly sustainable, beautiful postureinside and out—that gives you a rock-steady foundation for mind and body, so you feel capable and ready to show up fully in the world.

Perform better, easier, longer.

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Master technique, protect your body, and perform with presence.

When we work together, you become the expert of your own body, unlocking your most natural, powerful, and expressive performance—while avoiding the strain that can lead to burnout or an early retirement.

👋 Hi, I’m Grae!

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And I’m here to help you.

My superpower is supporting people to discover solutions to mind-body problems from posture to performance while holding space for all the emotions that come up on the journey.

And Alexander Technique is my “secret weapon.” A simple description is that it’s an educational method for learning how to recognize and change habits of how you move and express yourself, but it’s really so much more.

Alexander Technique treats mind and body as a singular, integrated whole in a way that our language just doesn’t allow us to express, but which is absolutely necessary to truly and deeply address the most difficult problems that we face.

You have to experience Alexander Technique to truly understand it, and I would like to offer you that experience.

Since 2017, I’ve taught Alexander Technique as an AmSAT nationally certified teacher, and I’ve worked with 1000+ individuals in private practice and at ~12 different performing arts conservatories and training centers.

It has helped me navigate with grace innumerable challenges throughout my private life: as a parent, as a performing artist and creator, as a hypermobile person with recurrent/chronic pain, and with my neurodivergence as an AuDHD individual.

Whatever your own exciting mix of body-mind challenges, I invite you to find out if Alexander Technique can help you.

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What is it like to work with Grae?

Real Client Interviews

How It Works:

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Step 1: Make Sure This is a Good Fit for You

We start with a free discovery call, followed by a risk-free trial lesson.

On your discovery call, we’ll explore your history, challenges, and goals and I will answer any questions you have.

If we both agree this is a potentially good fit to support you toward those goals, we’ll schedule a trial Alexander Technique lesson.

This is a risk-free opportunity for you to get a real experience of working with me. After your trial lesson, you will have a good sense if learning the Alexander Technique will be helpful.

Although sometimes things do change quickly, it’s important for you to know upfront that nothing in this work is a “quick fix” and this is one of those “get out what you put in” things.

For this to help, you will have to commit your energy to it. So, if you decide that the work would be helpful, but you’re not ready for it now, that’s OK! I’ll be here when you are ready.

If you’re ready, then we get to work.

Step 2: Learn to Move (and Think) with More Ease

Through (usually) weekly 1-on-1 sessions and personalized support you’ll learn key principles of the Alexander Technique to unlock freer, more confident movement in mind and body.

Together, we’ll:

  • Identify and release the patterns of tension and pain holding you back.

  • Build trust in your body with practical, gentle tools and explorations.

  • Apply these skills to your daily life and the activities that matter most—whether that’s working, parenting, or performing on stage.

This work is always tailored to you, from the mundane tasks of everyday life to the extraordinary moments that demand your best.

How much time per week does this require?

Less time than you are probably thinking! Private lessons are about an hour long, and you will likely want to spend somewhere between five and fifteen minutes per day practicing something called Active Rest, which is both helpful and pleasant.

Beyond that, because you’re learning fundamentals that apply to your everyday activities, you usually don’t need much if any extra ‘practice’ time — you apply what you’re learning to the life you’re living. There are generally no assigned stretches or exercises, either.

Step 3: Become the Expert of Your Whole Self

Imagine waking up feeling taller, lighter, and more at ease. You trust your body to support you, whether you’re facing a high-pressure performance or a busy day.

You’ll know how to:

  • Manage pain and tension calmly and effectively.

  • Stand, move, and breathe with effortless, confident posture.

  • Navigate new challenges with resilience and self-compassion.

And when life inevitably throws you off track, you’ll have the tools to find your way back—feeling secure in a future where you and your body function together with ease.

How long does this actually take?

As a starting point, I recommend a commitment of 12 lessons. This is often enough time to satisfactorily learn ways to significantly resolve the problems people first arrive with, although deeper questions often arise at this point.

Remember, this is a learning method that asks you to examine and change your habits at a fundamental level. Think about it like taking guitar lessons, but for your body (including your brain)— that is, some people are happy learning to play a few chords in an 8-week class, and some people become masters who continue to take lessons to deepen their understanding throughout their lives.

Most people end up actively taking lessons for between six months and two years, and then once in a while if something comes up that they would like a little extra support with.

What past clients have to say about their results

Client Interviews:
Pain Relief and Tension Release

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“My experience with Graeson has been amazing. Having a background in dance, sports, and eastern medicine it is a joy to work with someone who understands the nervous system so well.

Graeson helps me reprogram my body and mind every session and gives me tools to maintain the changes in everyday life.

I highly recommend anyone in chronic pain see Graeson. If you are an athlete and in good shape and health, he can help you reach your greatest potential, prevent injuries, and optimize your performance ability. I always walk out of a session with less pain, more awareness, and best of all: peace of mind.

- Lauren Hayden, DAOM, L.Ac.
(San Diego)

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“I’m very grateful to have found someone like Grae to help me through the complex challenges that chronic pain can bring. His knowledge is scarily comprehensive, and he has enabled me to start re-learning how to move with less strain at my own pace. You will never need to worry about feeling judged about your issues with Grae. Just book the appointment already!”

- Catherine P. (Online/New Zealand)

Client Interviews:
Easy, Painless Posture

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“Graeson is Grrrreat! I went in with pain in my wrist/elbow that was affecting my work and it’s all better now! No flare ups. In the process he helped my bowling game (seriously) and was able to find the cause and solution to my knee pain that I had previously resigned myself to always having… if you or a loved one has any kind of pain, I highly recommend Graeson!”

- Nick Z. (San Diego)

Client Interviews:
Aging with Ease and Mobility

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“I feel liberated from fifteen years of stress and tension after working with Graeson. Over a fifteen year period I struggled with stress that manifested into a very tight neck and shoulders. Within twelve weeks of working with Graeson, I have found immense relief. With his help, I have gained control of my entire body, even beyond the physical. I have a new sense of calm. If you want to make a change to address pain, you will be in good hands with Graeson.

- Mary L. (San Diego)

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“I am deeply grateful to Graeson for his online Alexander Technique lessons. Thanks to this work, the lockdown period became a productive time for learning to release physical tension and to move in ways that work better for my body. I have avoided pain from repetitive stress thanks to what I’ve learned. Graeson is supportive and knowledgeable, and understands the inextricable connections between emotional and physical functioning. The online lessons are pure joy. Thank you.”

- Kayla S. (Online/Singapore)

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“I can’t say enough good things about Graeson and his work. I was so impressed by our first interaction that I signed up for a series of sessions with Graeson.

At first our work focused on my aikido practice, but soon expanded into more. I am a woman in her 60’s who loves doing all sorts of sports and activities — cycling, surfing, aikido — and also has challenging work both physically and mentally. I have struggled with posture my whole life and more recently integrating an ankle injury and hip/pain stiffness.

Graeson has helped me to find ease with all of these issues which has enabled me to continue doing what I love pain-free which means freer and more joyous movement.

My appreciation for his work is boundless—thank you Graeson!”

- Rosalind H. (San Diego)

About Me

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Your body is meant to feel good to live in, and I know how it feels when it doesn’t.

I help people like you (re)connect with your body and its natural ease. That means moving without pain, standing with confidence, and performing at your best without strain—so you can focus on what matters most to you and sustain it throughout your lifetime.

As a certified Alexander Technique teacher, I combine movement, mindfulness, and creativity to help you feel more capable and grounded in your body—ready to take on whatever life throws your way.

But let’s be real: I didn’t always feel that way about my own body.

I first came to this work as an awkward teenager trying to find my voice and grace on stage, and it made a huge difference then.

Then, in my early 20s training in Chicago, I was sidelined by severe neck pain. Expensive treatments that were supposed to help were temporary at best and often made me feel worse.

Beyond the physical discomfort, I felt broken—like my body was working against me, and it would only get worse as I got older. If you’ve felt that way too, I want you to know: it doesn’t have to stay that way.

Desperate, I thought maybe this thing — Alexander Technique—that I had learned a decade ago might help. After just one lesson that reminded me of all I’d learned before, my pain went from debilitating to manageable.

It was clear to me then that I could keep getting better. And I did.

Through years of learning and experimentation, I discovered how to move better, think differently, and change my relationship with my body.

You can, too.

That journey did take longer than I wished for and without the support that would have made it both easier and faster.

And ultimately, that’s why I’m here: to help your journey go easier and faster than my own.

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What I bring to the table:

  • Alexander Technique Expertise: I trained full-time for three years to become a certified teacher of this research-backed method for improving movement and reducing tension. The way I work now with AT is a bit like couple’s counseling for you and your body.

  • Holistic and Scientific Perspective: With graduate training in neuroscience, anthropology, and functional anatomy, I combine a broad understanding of how humans work with the latest movement and pain science. (23 years of improvisational theater come in surprisingly handy for that holistic perspective, too.)

  • Listening and Collaboration: Many of my clients come to me after feeling dismissed or misunderstood by others. I’m here to hold space for your experiences, to listen deeply without judgment, and to work with you as a whole person—not just a set of symptoms.

    I also have a strict “No BS” policy—if something doesn’t make sense to you, work for you, or just sounds like BS, you tell me so we can figure out what works for you.

  • Real-World Experience Solving Unique Problems: Over the last 10 years, I’ve worked with 1000+, from busy professionals and performers to people navigating chronic pain. Whether your situation feels complicated or like nothing else has worked, I invite you to try this unique approach with me.

A few things about me, personally…

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I’ve been endlessly curious about how and why humans do what they do since I was a kid, and I always believed that curiosity could be used to help others. I like to think this has come true.

I’m queer, neurodivergent (AuDHD), and hypermobile... and I didn’t fully figure any of that out until I was very much an adult.

Improv is my personal performance passion. It has been a creative constant in my life for 20-some years, and to this day one of my proudest experiences has been playing a cat in an existential relationship with a laser pointer for an hour and a half improvised play.

I used to think plants were boring compared to animals (and people), but now, my garden is a refuge and plants are as special an interest as I’ve ever had.

At home in Crest just outside San Diego, California, I share life with my wife Becky, our two daughters Clementine and Rosie, two cats, a bearded dragon, and 70+ fruit trees. If you come for lessons, sometimes you go home with fruit!

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 FAQs - You might be wondering…

Get in touch!

Feel free to drop me a line via the contact form or through my contact info below.

E-mail: graeson@thismighthelp.us
Phone: 6197335344 (please, text only)

Alternatively, you are welcome to book a time for a call with me. I look forward to speaking with you!

“I have alleviated so much pain from unneeded tension: lower back pain so bad it hurt to breathe, frequent headaches, pinching shoulder pains, and a hard time standing for long.

Working with Graeson and the Alexander Technique has been the most life-changing thing I’ve ever done for my physical health.

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I have learned to help myself feel great in my body. I feel empowered to make good choices.

You deserve to be able to do this, too!

Graeson is a magical teacher who creates a safe and supportive space to learn about new ways of moving and being in your body.

10/10, would recommend, it’s amazing.”

-Kate A. (San Diego)

“Working with Graeson showed me that I didn’t have to be tense. I was surprised by the things my body could do — like run without clomping and hurting! And I couldn’t have asked for a kinder, more patient teacher than Graeson.

He showed me that my body is capable of relaxing, of moving, of not feeling like my limbs are bolted in like some Frankenstein monster.

I was surprised by the things my body could do — like run without clomping and hurting! And I couldn’t have asked for a kinder, more patient teacher than Graeson.”

-Kyle S. (San Diego)

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Schedule Your One-on-One

Take a Class

Sunday Alexander Technique

Coming back soon!

A weekly drop-in class for people who want to better understand how they move and use their body, and how small changes in posture, attention, and habit can make everyday life and creative work feel a little easier.

You don’t need experience, and you don’t need to know what the Alexander Technique is. What helps is a willingness to slow down and notice how you move and respond in your body, along with some openness to what might shift when you do.

Tuesday Improv Lab

7pm-9pm @ the Little Studio

An intimate drop-in space for improvisers where chill hang-out vibes meet deep improv experimentation in a safe, curated space with some great people. What started as a simple weekly drop-in class has basically turned into an improv-focused artists’ salon, and there is room for more people to join us.

If you would like to join us, please send me a direct message for the details!

If you’re curious about group coaching or inviting me in to teach a class or workshop for your ensemble, school, or organization, I’d be glad to hear from you.